Anger

Have you ever wondered why is it that you'll get angry easily with/by someone? (*i'm not talking abt pple cutting you queue and you getting angry... no no ....)

With my own observation, i do think that it only happens under 2 situations. 1, would be that you really like the person alot, so much so that you will get affected easily. Even disappointment too, can be transform into a form of anger, somehow and somewhere which will then turn out to be sarcasm flying everywhere. Sometimes, i really think that sarcasm really makes things worst, especially when you're dealing with adults. Sarcasm is therefore, in my opinion, shld be the last thing used against someone who is in that sense dear to you. We do say that bickerings or small disagreements sometimes is good to smooth a relationship. However, nobody ever mention that sarcasm is healthy. It is in fact, very unhealthy. I can at times really be sarcastic. But, i will only be sarcastic if i smelt sarcasm from the other party first. Often, i feel that i'm hurt in the process of hurting others. When i receive something that is nothing but sarcastic remarks, i do likewise. It is indeed a vicious cycle.

Alright now i did mention that it happens under 2 situations. Before i digress to talk all about sarcasm, the 2nd one would be that, you really dont like the person right from the start, to the extent that nothing that he/she does pleases you. Nothing seems to go right in your eyes. But at least this type of anger, will be short. You will probably only end up grumbling about how 'childish' or 'ignorant' that person is that makes u wanting to puke. Grumbles dont kill and it will probably not be hurtful because it will never reach the ears of the other party. At most, you get tired yourself for spending the energy to get angry. Ha.

So, i would say that out of 90% of my angers would probably towards people who are dear to me.

But did you also realise that the moment u show slightest anger, will create a snowball that could probably result in a lose-lose situation?

I know but sometimes i really cant help it.
Simply because you're so dear to me.

Hmmmmm but seriously, my temper is really very much better as i aged.
Just to let you peeps know, if i happen to be angry with you... its really just because you're precious.